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My website has been offline for nearly two years. My branded social media accounts have also been taken down for my safety.
If you are here, it may be because you were influenced to look for information about me. Understand this: you cannot harm me or my children any more than we have already endured.
Seventeen years ago, I thought I had found the man of my dreams. We married and were blessed with two extraordinary children. Last year, we escaped domestic violence. I have an active Order of Protection and yet, the abuse has not stopped. I receive no support to take care of the littles, but weekly I am faced with additional forms of abuse, attacks, and threats.
Now, others have chosen to align themselves with my ex-spouse, emboldening his behavior. If you are here on his behalf, I urge you to reconsider your position. Supporting abuse—directly or indirectly—does not just damage me, it damages the children who never asked for this conflict.
I have seen the videos he has produced. I have heard the vile gossip and lies. I have felt the sting of being cast out of my community and my church. I have carried the weight of being betrayed in my marriage.
But do not mistake my silence for weakness, or for lack of truth. I remain quiet not because I have nothing to say, but because our children’s well-being is my highest priority. Public smearing and false narratives do not destroy me; they only deepen the harm to them.
I hold far more truth than I have chosen to release. For now, I exercise restraint. That is not silence—it is being humane. It is showing grace. It is the perspective of someone who refuses to be confined by lies or controlled by fear.
Asking why did I stay or why didn't I say anything... Sometimes staying in the abuse is safer because you know what to expect. But, there came a point that I/we could no longer endure the abuse. When I did ask for help, I was told "he's a good man" - "I don't want that on my heart."
My position is not one of retaliation, but my priority is our littles.